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⚔ HOW'S MY DRIVING? ⚔

Welcome to Exsilium's second game-wide HMD! These will be occurring once every three months as has been voted upon here.

How It Works:

The gamewide HMD is an opportunity for players to come together and bring each other feedback about one another's playing. Constructive criticism is encouraged, however what that means is that it must be constructive. If you are going to offer up criticism, we encourage that you provide suggestions to the player within your critique. We are here to improve! It is also acceptable to let someone know if you enjoy their playing, but note that unhelpful or empty responses ("Oh, I love you so much!!", "Your playing is bad and you should feel bad.") without any real substance are discouraged.

If you like what a player is doing, tell them exactly what it is and why! If you have questions about their playing, this is what this forum is for as well.
It is not mandatory, and you have no obligation to respond if you don't wish to.

Anonymous commenting is enabled and IP logging is on due to some disrespectful behavior. Please remember to be thoughtful and respectful in your crit-giving. Full Disclosure: The moderator team may still be given anonymous, non-IP logged criticism here at the suggestions page or their personal HMD posts.

Please fill out the form below and leave a comment with your name or handle in the subject line!
<b>Player Name:</b> <b>Character(s) you play:</b> CHARACTER NAME ★ FANDOM (or ORIGINAL) ★ CHARACTER ACCOUNT <b>Personal HMD(s):</b> If you have one! <b>Anonymous Commenting Allowed?:</b> Yes/No <b>Additional Comments:</b> Let us know here if anything life-changing has happened to your character while they're in game that would otherwise make them different from their canon self or may have changed their personality in some way.


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Tess
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I haven't seen Feferi be active for a while. She tags people you are castmates with or friends with but she is a very bubbly, active girl and likes making new friends. Try branching out with her more.

[fintastic]

Thanks for the feedback! Like I said, that's been a personal issue rather than a character issue. I've been really busy and I was on hiatus for the vast majority of last month. So I wind up poking my head in on the threads I see on my timelines or people she's already involved with. I have no trouble getting her out and about though.

eta, also!! I don't know who you are or if I tag you at all, but if you or anyone else REALLY wants Feferi tags somewhere, please feel free to just come grab me and be like, hey, Tess, tag my post! I'll do it, unless I have some REALLY good reason not to. Like. Being completely incapacitated.

[(Anonymous)]

Your response reads as condescending and dismissive.

I have been in game for some time now and it wasn't just last month that I saw you fall short. I understand that real life comes first, especially health problems but Feferi is a very social character so she should be tagging out more.

I am happy to grab people when I think they will put the effort in but I haven't seen any evidence that supports that you will. Players should not have to request you to tag.

[fintastic]

I'm sorry, I'm really not trying to be condescending! I should have been more specific, I forgot to announce my hiatus last month is what I should have said. When I wasn't at work, I was away from the computer.

And of course, no one ever HAS to request to tag me, I just meant that if I was wanted somewhere really specific and that I hadn't already tagged in, that they could always contact me and that I'm really open to that. Some people don't like to be asked to tag, which is completely reasonable, but I do not mind at all.

For all it's worth, I did go through and counted and found that I had about 16 threads last month with 12 individual people, (eta oops that's without my last post!) though, so now I have a starting point and a little more solid numbers to work with. With being a little more available in the coming weeks (and having dropped two characters elsewhere, possibly with a third on the way) I'll definitely be taking it from there and seeing what the rest of August has in store. I'm also looking to post this weekend and tag a little more in the event log!

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[(Anonymous)]

whoa there friend you might need to slow down

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[(Anonymous)]

Condescending and dismissive?

Anon, you're projecting.

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[(Anonymous)]

I disagree but you're entitled to your own opinion.